One practice that’s become second nature to me is reflection. Reflection is part of the learning process and I highlight this step in my full day Advanced Emotional Intelligence (EQ) course where we talk about a model that can be used to develop your emotional effectiveness. The “Developing Emotional Effectiveness” cycle includes reviewing and evaluating your EQ assessment, thinking through how you can practice self-observation, reflecting on your day-to-day situations to help you better understand the role that a specific EQ leadership skill plays in your life, and developing an action plan and then taking action. We even dive a little further into the Gibbs Reflection Cycle so you have a specific set of questions you answer to fully reflect on the situation/event. You can see the cycle images below:
What’s even more powerful is when you pair the reflection process with celebration! Celebrate the little things, the big things, and the things in between – they all matter. Celebration helps build the EQ leadership skill of self-regard which is your inner confidence and respecting yourself. No one is perfect and it’s imperative to pause, reflect, and celebrate something you are proud of, no matter how small. Too often we say we’ll celebrate after the big project is complete, or we get caught up in fighting to survive another day/project/deadline and we don’t stop. Then you look back and you are frustrated, or perhaps too hard on yourself, or even burnt out for what you are not doing/accomplishing/achieving/etc. Pause, celebrate something every day, remember you are only human… I often have to remind myself of this too.
So now we know we need to reflect and celebrate but sometimes we want to understand it at a deeper level. That’s where ChatGPT comes in for me; I asked it “what does science and research say about celebrating different successes, achievements, mistakes, etc. in order to grow, learn, and develop in your personal and professional life?” Here are the results:
“Science and research highlight the positive impact of celebrating successes, achievements, and even mistakes on personal and professional growth, learning, and development. Here are some key insights:
1. Positive Reinforcement and Motivation
Celebrating achievements serves as positive reinforcement, encouraging individuals to continue striving toward their goals. According to Behavioral Psychology, positive reinforcement increases the likelihood of a behavior being repeated. Recognizing accomplishments releases dopamine, a neurotransmitter associated with pleasure and motivation, which can boost morale and inspire further effort.
2. Boosting Self-Esteem and Confidence
Acknowledging successes, no matter how small, helps build self-esteem and confidence. Research in Positive Psychology suggests that celebrating personal wins fosters a sense of self-worth and competence. This increased confidence can lead to a greater willingness to take on new challenges and pursue personal and professional development.
3. Learning from Mistakes
Celebrating mistakes may seem counterintuitive, but it is a powerful learning tool. The concept of a "growth mindset," popularized by psychologist Carol Dweck, emphasizes viewing challenges and failures as opportunities to learn and grow. Celebrating mistakes encourages a culture of experimentation and innovation by reducing the fear of failure and promoting a mindset that values learning over perfection.
4. Enhancing Team Dynamics and Collaboration
In a professional setting, celebrating team successes can strengthen team cohesion and improve communication. Studies in Organizational Psychology indicate that recognizing collective achievements fosters a sense of belonging and shared purpose, leading to better collaboration and overall team performance.
5. Psychological Well-being and Stress Reduction
Celebrations can act as a psychological break, providing relief from stress and promoting well-being. Positive emotions generated from celebrations can counteract negative emotions and reduce stress, which is essential for maintaining mental health. This is supported by research in Affective Neuroscience, which shows that positive social interactions and celebrations can enhance emotional resilience.
6. Goal Setting and Future Planning
Celebrating milestones provides an opportunity to reflect on progress and set new goals. According to Goal-Setting Theory, setting specific and challenging goals, and celebrating their achievement, can enhance motivation and performance. This reflection helps in identifying areas for improvement and planning future actions.
7. Creating a Positive Organizational Culture
In the workplace, celebrations contribute to a positive organizational culture. Research shows that companies that regularly celebrate achievements experience higher employee engagement and lower turnover rates. A positive culture fosters loyalty, satisfaction, and a greater commitment to organizational goals.
8. Encouraging a Culture of Appreciation
Acknowledging contributions, whether individual or collective, fosters a culture of appreciation and recognition. This is crucial for maintaining high levels of employee morale and engagement. Studies indicate that employees who feel appreciated are more likely to be productive, motivated, and committed to their organization.”1
Powerful stuff for sure! So what are some suggestions on things you can celebrate in your personal and professional life to foster growth and development? Here you go:
Personal Life
Personal Growth: Celebrate the development of new skills, habits, or mindsets.
Health and Well-being: Acknowledge improvements in physical and mental health.
Relationships: Celebrate the strengthening of relationships with family, friends, and loved ones.
Overcoming Challenges: Recognize the perseverance and resilience shown in difficult times.
New Experiences: Appreciate the courage to try new activities or experiences.
Achievements and Milestones: Celebrate personal achievements like completing a course or hobby project.
Self-Discovery: Acknowledge moments of self-reflection and understanding.
Acts of Kindness: Celebrate the positive impact you've had on others.
Financial Milestones: Recognize progress in managing finances, like saving or investing.
Personal Goals: Celebrate setting and working towards personal goals, whether achieved or ongoing.
Lifestyle Changes: Appreciate any positive changes in lifestyle, such as healthier eating or exercise habits.
Creative Pursuits: Celebrate creative endeavors like writing, art, or music.
Self-Care: Acknowledge the importance of taking time for self-care and relaxation.
Travel and Exploration: Celebrate the joy of exploring new places and cultures.
Mindfulness and Meditation: Recognize the practice of mindfulness and meditation in daily life.
Professional Life
Career Milestones: Celebrate promotions, job changes, or significant projects completed.
Skill Development: Acknowledge the acquisition of new skills or certifications.
Networking: Celebrate building and maintaining professional relationships.
Team Achievements: Recognize and celebrate the success of collaborative efforts.
Leadership Growth: Acknowledge growth in leadership capabilities and responsibilities.
Innovation and Creativity: Celebrate moments of creative problem-solving and innovation.
Mentorship and Guidance: Appreciate the opportunity to mentor others or receive mentorship.
Professional Recognition: Celebrate awards, accolades, or positive feedback received.
Work-Life Balance: Recognize efforts to maintain a healthy work-life balance.
Adaptability: Celebrate the ability to adapt to new roles, technologies, or work environments.
Client Success: Acknowledge the positive impact on clients or customers.
Continuous Learning: Celebrate the pursuit of continuous education and learning opportunities.
Company Growth: Recognize the role in contributing to the company's growth and success.
Innovation and Creativity: Celebrate innovative ideas and solutions implemented in your work.
Community Involvement: Acknowledge contributions to community or social initiatives through work.”1
Incorporating reflection and celebration into your personal and professional life is more than just a feel-good exercise; it's a powerful practice backed by science and research. As we've explored, celebrating achievements and even mistakes can reinforce positive behaviors, boost confidence, and foster a growth mindset. It's about recognizing the progress we've made, appreciating the lessons learned, and setting ourselves up for future success.
So, take a moment today to reflect on your journey and celebrate your victories, big and small. Whether it's a professional milestone, a personal breakthrough, or simply making it through a challenging day, every accomplishment is worth acknowledging. By doing so, you'll not only enhance your emotional intelligence and leadership skills but also create a positive and supportive environment for yourself and those around you.
Remember, growth isn't a linear path, and neither is the journey to success. Embrace the ups and downs, celebrate every step forward, and continue to thrive amidst the ever-changing landscape of life. Celebrate often, reflect deeply, and keep pushing the boundaries of what's possible—because that's how true growth happens.
So, my question to you – what are you reflecting on and celebrating today?
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About Jaclyn T. Badeau, CPA, CGMA, MBA, EQ Certified
Jaclyn Badeau is a People Success Strategist who helps uncomplicate leading humans so that companies and their employees can harness the moments of change without burning out their people in the process. With a background in cultivating high-performing teams, delivering coaching and mentoring, serving as a global business risk advisor, and facilitating leadership training to a global workforce, Jaclyn has a unique perspective on what employees need and what works. Jaclyn is also a multi-award recipient and is passionate about sharing her expertise and knowledge in volunteer advisory and leadership roles for many associations and not-for-profits.
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1 OpenAI. (2023). ChatGPT (October 2023): Large language model. Retrieved from https://chat.openai.com
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